I have to say that today was probably the best Mother's Day of my mothering years.
We had plans to go hiking so we packed our lunch bag and started getting ready for the day.
The boys honored my mother's day wish by giving me a new picnic blanket.... just like I had requested. I think this is the first year that they have gifted on their own accord. I am proud.
And... I am officially old. (please give me a picnic blanket. geez)
Our original hiking companions were unable to come today, so we headed across town to get another boy, from another mother. (I was privileged to sneak Matthew away from his own mother for many hours today. Thanks, Trena!)
We had a special breakfast at Bojangles. (only special because my kids would never have agreed to Bojangles on a normal day!)
We hit the road and headed toward Mt. Pleasant for a day of hiking. I was a pretty rad mom, maneuvering up a bumpy dirt road all on my own. I remember when Thayer first took me to Cold Mountain, on the same road... and I was so intimidated by the ruts and bumps. I thought he was so bad ass.... getting us to the hiking location. This time I was driving like a boss! ha.
More proof that I might actually be an adult! ack!
We arrived at the trail head at noon. My boys have camped on Mt. Pleasant, twice, so they knew what to expect and where to go.
I love having teen boys!
My big accomplishment on the hike was that I peed in the woods!! Go Jill! I was quite pleased that I remembered how. And I recalled the first time I peed in the woods, back when I was dating Thayer. I think it was my sister-in-law who had to teach me. I squated like a pro today. :)
To my horror, as I continued along the path.... the boys pointed out that my choice squatting location was in clear view of the looping trail! Thank goodness there were no other hikers in the vicinity. I can only imagine their horror!
We hiked to the summit and had our lunch. The boys enjoyed showing me where they had camped on their previous visits. I was quite impressed at the secludedness and wildness of it all.
I'm 100% sure that I won't be camping there. ever.
I have no idea how they managed to carry their gear up on their previous adventures. It was tiring!
I noticed something about myself today.
I'm pretty sure that a year ago, at this time, I wouldn't have even considered such a hike. I was at my heavist weight and I probably would have died. I still have a long way to go on my weightloss journey... but my routine of walking everyday has shown that I'm in good enough shape to hike! This is such a relief. I'm glad that I will be able to participate in these activities with my boys. I want this to be a summer of adventure for us! I am glad that I can be active with them. This is great motivation to keep getting in shape.
I calculated that we hiked about 6.5 miles this afternoon. Our excursion on the mountain took about 3.5 hours.
Including breakfast and travel time I was able to spend a whopping 7 hours of uniterrupted time with the kids. I had a blast!!
After returning home, we showered and ordered pizza delivery! (which I never order delivery! this MUST be a special day!) We watched a documentary about the Lemurs of Madagascar.... AND I still had time to download these pictures and blog!
I couldn't have asked for a better day!
I'm a blessed Mom indeed.
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Sunday, May 10, 2015
Sunday, May 11, 2014
mother's day
Seriously. Please tell me that I'm not the only person on the planet that had a rough Mother's Day.
A quick glance at Facebook and it appears that everyone was spewing love and roses... enjoying lovely afternoons with their perfect, thoughtful, children...while reminiscing about their births, and taking gorgeous family photos.
My mother's day consisted of my children bumming money off of their grandmother to buy candy... for themselves.
Not one of my own children wished me a happy mother's day.
Parts of my day made me flustered and sweaty. In other moments, my kids ignored me, disobeyed me... and disrespected our friends.
I... or my son... broke my phone.
Happy Mother's Day.
It's not that I expected anything different on this particular day. But I think way down, deep inside of me, I kinda hoped that today would be a fun filled family day. Kinda like the ones depicted on Facebook.
(and I realize that I hate to look at Facebook on holidays... because pretty much everyone ticks me off)
With that off of my chest, I have to admit that there were good parts of the day.
Singing at church.
Singing in my car.
Sharing a meal with my mother.
Having a campfire (thanks Lyn).
Hanging with my single mom friends.
Enjoying the company of my Sunday night crew.
Watching a funny movie.
My friends are my life savers. They let me vent, they encourage me, and they love my little family in spite of our dysfunction. I am thankful for my friends who have made me, and my boys, a priority. These folks are helping to keep me afloat.
At the end of the day... even today... I am immensely thankful.
p.s. My kids went to bed happy. And tomorrow is always a new day :)
Sunday, May 08, 2011
Happy Mother's Day!
What a nice surprise from my boys!!
Lucas painted the pictures on this side...
And Daniel painted the "M O M" on this side...
I love this!!!
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